Coolness of the Eyes

I have a problem. I think I should call it the 'excessive-love-for-men' syndrome. That is, excessive love for Good men, to be exact. Yes, I am suffering from a very severe form of this condition. Such that, all it takes for me to start taking an interest in a man is for him to be polite to me. & thats it, he immediately has a place in my heart. Something as simple as a man greeting me kindly, or helping me pick up something I dropped or even just holding a door for me-these simple things are what are EXTREMELY attractive to me. Its like, the second any man does even the tiniest act of kindness towards me, I start Like-liking him. This is a problem because, its like Im constantly falling in love :S Yet I thought love was all about finding only ONE person and spending the rest of one's life with only him. So how come I can't seem to stop feeling attracted to every nice guy that crosses my path? I actually think its kind of perverted in a way for me to feel like this. I feel disloyal and unfaithful already. I feel like I don't have a solid standard or criteria for what my heart should love. I feel like I'm not giving my heart what it really deserves and I'm constantly trying to satisfy it with inadequate substitutes. So, Allah Taa'la...What I want to say is that I think males are beautiful creatures. I appreciate them, I appreciate the fact that you created them. I am grateful that you created them. I am grateful that you made them to be protectors of the believing woman. I pray for all of my dear muslim brothers too. I pray I do not violate the rights of men. I pray I am always respectful to men, in thoughts, words and actions. and I pray to you with all my heart, to make me a wife who is the coolness of the eyes for her husband! :) ThankYou Alla Taa'la!